by  Luminita Saviuc: some of the most powerful and life changing lessons I have learned so far came from this great man, Wayne Dyer…

and today I would like to share 15 of these lessons with you.  The lessons are in no particular order as all of them are equally important to me 

1.COOPERATION IS HEALTHIER THAN COMPETITION

Work on improving your own person and be so busy with doing so that you don’t have time to compare and compete with others. We are all in this together and this sense of separation will only weaken us all creating more pain and suffering.

If you’re always in a hurry, always trying to get ahead of the other guy, or someone else’s performance is what motivates you, then that person is in control of you. ~ Wayne Dyer

2. IF YOU LOVE PEOPLE YOU DON’T TRY TO CHANGE THEM

When you love somebody you love them for what they are not for what you want them to be, without imposing your will and without constantly trying to change them.

Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you. ~ Wayne Dyer

3. IGNORANCE IS NOT BLISS

Allow yourself to expand your mind a little more day by day, give up labels and you will be happier. If you constantly say NO to “strange” ideas, things, events, people, how can you expect to progress through life? Try new things, if it makes your life better stick to it and if it doesn’t let it go, It’s that simple.

The highest form of ignorance is when you reject something you don’t know anything about. ~ Wayne Dyer

4. YOU ARE NOT A VICTIM OF THE WORLD

When you affirm thing like, You make me mad, this situation is upsetting me, I can’t believe you are treating me this way, etc., you start playing the victim game. Take responsibility for your own thoughts, your own feelings and actions and by doing so you will no longer give your power away to forces outside yourself. When something negative wil come your way, you will pause and instead of reacting you will RESPOND, to everything and everyone. You will no longer be a victim but rather a person who is aware of his/her inner strength and power.

How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours. ~ Wayne Dyer

5. YOU FIND YOURSELF IN SOLITUDE

If you are comfortable in your own skin and if you really love your own person, you will not be afraid to spend some time alone. You will enjoy the time you spend alone as much as you do when you are surrounded by the people you love dearly.

You cannot be lonely if you like the person you’re alone with. ~ Wayne Dyer

6. REJECTION MAKES YOU STRONGER

If you trust and listen to your own heart and intuition, you will always know where to go and what to do with your life. No matter how many doors will close on your face, you will not give up and you will allow rejection to make you stronger and better but not bitter.

Be grateful to all those people who told you no. It’s because of them that you managed to do it all yourself. ~Wayne Dyer

7. SELF WORTH CANNOT BE VERIFIED BY OTHERS

If you constantly seek outside yourself for approval and validation, you will never be happy. We are all different and we all perceive things in different ways but your reputation is not something you can really control. Your reputation is not really in your hands, so stop trying to please everyone around you and start pleasing your own SELF. You are the person who matters the most and if you yourself are not happy with who you are, chances are that others will be happy with YOU either!

Self-worth cannot be verified by others. You are worthy because you say it is so. If you depend on others for your value it is other-worth. ~ Wayne Dyer

8. YOU DON’T ATTRACT WHAT YOU WANT IN YOUR LIFE, YOU ATTRACT WHAT YOU ARE

People often think if they focus long enough on something they want, with the Law of Attraction and everything they will get whatever they want in life, but that’s not how things work. If you purify your mind and your hearth, you will attract many beautiful things in your life, and abundance will not be something you will have to chase because it will chase you. On the other hand, if your mind and heart is full of negativity, negativity in all forms will show up in your life.

”If you’re obsessed with defeating the other guy and winning at all costs, then you’re guranteed to attract the vibrational equivalent of this thinking into your life- even if you do yoga and stand on your head chanting mantras everyday.” Wayne Dyer

9. THERE ARE NO LIMITS TO WHAT YOU CAN ACHIEVE – YOU ARE A NO LIMIT PERSON

There are no limits to what you can achieve, only those you choose to impose on yourself.

When you argue for your limitations, all you get are your limitations. ~ Wayne Dyer

10. HEAVEN ON EARTH’ IS A CHOICE YOU MUST MAKE, NOT A PLACE YOU MUST FIND

Loving people live in a loving world. Hostile people live in a hostile world. Same world.~ Wayne Dyer

Focus on the BAD and that’s all you will see and attract into your life; focus on the GOOD and that’s all you will see and attract into your life.

 It is a truly scientific phenomenon that when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. ~ Wayne Dyer

11. NO NEED TO STRESS OVER EVERYTHING

Believe it or not, there is an invisible force who created the whole world, the whole Universe and this force becomes available to us the moment we stop trying to do it all by ourselves, the moment we decide to allow events to take their natural course and just go with the FLOW.

Good morning, this is God. I will be handling all of your problems today. I will not need your help. So have a miraculous day. ~ Wayne Dyer

13. THERE IS NO END TO PERSONAL GROWTH

Personal growth doesn’t end when you finish school. The moment you’ve stopped growing you can say that you’ve stopped living.

Individuals who use self-labels are stating, “I’m a finished product in this area, and I’m never going to be any different.” If you’re a finished product all tied up and put away, you’ve stopped growing. ~ Wayne Dyer

14. BE REALISTIC – EXPECT MIRACLES

There is a great power in the Universe, the Source of it all, and this power makes itself available to you the moment you align with who you really are deep down inside, creating miracles for you and those you love.

Once you believe in yourself and see your soul as divine and precious, you’ll automatically be converted to a being who can create miracles. ~ Wayne Dyer

15. FOLLOW YOUR HEART AND YOU WILL BE SUCCESSFUL

This is such a powerful truth that only a few of us get to live and discover. When you get your life on purpose, when you focus on giving the best of you to the world, abundance will flow freely into your life and you will discover happiness you never thought could be yours.

Doing what you love is the cornerstone of having abundance in your life. ~ Wayne Dyer

Source: Purpose Fairy